Women
were regarded as central part of the society from time immemorial
though society continued to be patriarchal. Women were worshipped as
goddess; adored as mother, wife and sister. But some incidents of
recent times show that they are nothing more than objects of flesh
and blood to satiate carnal pleasure through force. Every day when
people flip through newspapers in search of good news like
development in the country, economic progression etc they are
confronted with just the opposite story. Women are been assaulted,
molested and tortured both physically and mentally by men who can
best be equated with beasts.
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Leaving
aside the Vedic age when women commanded a lot of respect they have
always been looked down upon as a commodity which is for pleasure and
enjoyment. It is depressing to digest debates across the country
which partly blames the tempting dressing of women leading to their
rape. But these discussions cannot be accepted when globalisation is
in full swing and when the global transfer of culture and ideas has
reached a sizable proportion. In western societies women are much
liberal in deciding what to wear which may raise eye brows in Indian
standards but still the crime rate is lower compared to us.
Primitive thinking of parda system is still in the mind of people who
think dressing sense of women is all to blame. However, dress hardly
matters to the perverts. We read in newspaper or see in television
that a girl wearing salwar suit gets raped and furthermore women who
are wearing sarees are also not spared. A woman who wears provocative
dresses (according to Indian sensibilities) attracts a lot of lustful
onlookers.
Now
we can come to a conclusion that cultural backwardness of Indian
society is the main factor for lack of respect to women. We hear or
read that our country has undergone a revolution or it is developing
day by day but the actual scenario is bleak. Society is thinking over
ways which enable women to get more opportunities so that they can be
placed on an equal footing with men through legislations and
enactments. Today we find women as ministers, chief minister, prime
minster, president, top executives, sports-person etc but the
fundamental question regarding respect to women still comes
secondary. At present women irrespective of their age are searching
for "security”. Now question is- who will ensure their
security?
About the Author-
Nilika Banerjee is student of Journalism & Mass Communication at Rani Birla Girl's College, Kolkata, West Bengal, India.
Disclaimer:
The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and
they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.
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