Evening Handbags and How to Get Hold of the Best Ones

There are many different events and occasions that we women attend or grace to all year long, some are annual events like birthday celebrations while some are once in a lifetime moments that we simply cannot forgo. It could be a dinner engagement, a big client meeting wherein you need to seal the deal, and a whole lot more. And during these important and precious moments, you need to look as special as the event by dressing up well and carrying the necessary fashion items and accessories. And when it comes to accessories, all women should be carrying those elegant fashion purses with them. So here are some important thoughts and reminders when picking those ladies handbags and purses that will accentuate your outfit and help you leave a lasting impression.

Sizing, Colors, and Textures Count

First off, you need to consider a number of aspects before paying for any evening bag or fashion purse that catches your attention whether in the stores, boutiques or most especially online. And one of them is the size of the bags or purses that will match and compliment you and the clothes that you wear. Generally, speaking, bags during special evening affairs like dates and intimate meetings should not be able to cause you stress and hassle as far as having to carry them is concerned, so opt for something that is smaller than the average bag but make sure that is offers enough space to carry all your valuables that you need to bring for the night like your wallet, keys, and maybe some makeup.

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Next are the colors of the ladies handbags or fashion purses and getting them right. To save you from headaches in choosing the right colors, stick to the safe and neutral ones like black, silver and gold which are quite versatile to mix and match with almost all sorts of outfit colors, particularly the solid-colored ones.

And lastly, choosing the right textures and patterns of the fashion purses. As a rule of thumb, go for something that sort of contrasts your outfit. If you are wearing something that is plain-colored and is streamlined, then go for ladies handbags that are textured such as leather, especially the exotic ones. Just try to mix them in order to create more character.

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Never Forget Price And Quality

And of course, you should always be mindful of the price range that you can afford and the quality that you expect to get from the ladies handbags and fashion purses that you will be buying. Set a budget and stick to it so that you will be able to trim down your choices. You really need not spend a lot of money to enjoy something that is stylish especially if you will be purchasing online. But do make sure of the quality that you will be getting. If you are buying in the stores, examine the quality of the bags carefully. Check the stitching, the lining and the materials that were used. If you will be buying online, do some research on the reputation of the websites you will be buying from.

About the Author-

Patricia May has been writing about general fashion and chic handbags which she truly loves to death.

Film Review: The Magic of Barfi

I am an ardent film lover, a movie buff, whose definition of an ideal weekend is definitely a trip to the multiplex!!!

Source: UTV Motion Pictures

Barifi came as a whiff of fresh air, when I went to watch it this Friday!!!

Set in the 1970’s West Bengal with its beautiful retro looks and pastel shaded surroundings, Barfi’ is the story of a deaf –and-mute person named Murphy who is popular by the name Barfi (Ranbir Kapoor). In spite of his physical challenges, Barfi is brimming with energy, magic and music! The film portrays his relationships with two women (Ileana D’Cruz & Priyanka Chopra) in his life and how it goes through a roller coaster ride of love, friendship, heartbreak , pain and union over a period of six years. Barfi is filmed in Darjeeling where the mist, tea gardens, and the settings of the famous coffee joint, Keventers will bring back memories buried deep within. In the second half you get to see Barfi set in the alleys of North Kolkata, with the Howrah Bridge in the back drop.

The Story is simple and yet refreshingly different, reminding you of classics of Raj Kapoor style and of films like Sadma. Screenplay is awesomely done, and it is particularly commendable the way the writer weaves a tale of love which seems so close to real life. The story is about Barfi’s journey of love with Shruti and Jhilmil . Shruti -- a beautiful girl, soon finds herself falling for Barfi’s magic touch in spite of acknowledging the differences they had socially and she being engaged to Ranjit ( Jishu Sengupta) already. The romance blooms between the two as Barfi charms her with his innocence, his happy ways, his smiles, and his energy. The two share bicycle rides through pine forests, horse-saddles and their very tender midnight kiss for the first time. As the film progresses pathos sets in over concerns involving engagement rings to the kidnapping of an autistic young woman called Jhilmil (which is the central plot.) Things change and gear faster than Barfi would understand.

In the turn of events Barfi falls for Jhilmil later, understands her ways, sets her free, nurtures her like a knight in shining armour and finds a new definition of love with her.

We see the characters of Barfi, Shruti and Jhuilmil meet in the cross roads of life. Shruti breaks free from her love less marriage to come back to Barfi, and Barfi madly chases Jhilmil.

The music is stupendous and Pritam brilliantly make us croon the songs long long even after hearing them. ‘Main Kya Karon’ romantically tells us the magic one feels after falling in love, ‘Ala Barfi is a superb character description of Barfi himself. A beautiful gazal in the second half shares the pain and helplessness of meeting ones lost love suddenly after long!

The cinematography is flawless and Anurag Basu’s direction is powerful too. We see ace Bengali actors like Ashish Vidyarthi, Jishu Sengupta and Rupa Ganguly in Barfi. Use of Chaplinistic comedies and Raj Kapoor styled dressing and romance has ornamented the films with many jewels. This film is a must watch in all respects.

Barfi teaches you that love has its own language, own music, own expressions which alone makes life worth living, you have to be in love and relish the gains, pains and sweet nothings that comes your way….

Please go and watch this beautiful film!

About the Author- 

Srirupa Ganguly lives in Hyderabad and is in perennial love with writing. Having a distinct style of her own and wide experience in writing for quite a period of time, she is known for her insightful view on events.

Special Guest Article: Journalism and Literature

Though journalism is junior to literature in terms of age they move hand in hand. They depend on each other in terms of format as well as a little bit of content. Such dependence can be compared to neighbourhood living when neighbours living together owe a lot to mutual exchange.

Journalism deals mainly with information which is supposed to be factual in nature. The legendary proverb says "facts are sacred, opinion is free". It justifies the importance of information which we expect to get from the practice of journalism. On the contrary, literature goes for elaboration of the human lives entangled with subtle niceties which are deliberately transformed into art form. When journalism paves the foundation of history with factual information, literature delves into the depth of human relationships.

When journalism tries to capture a time or a situation on the basis of factual information, literature goes to explore the factors as well as sensibilities leading to the levels of perceptions and understandings. For understanding Mahatma Gandhi, newspapers can be of immense help so far as information details are concerned. But understanding Gandhi in literary format must have to be different. Literature accommodates imagination while journalism puts no entry to the artifice to it at the expense of factual information. But ironically this contrast has failed to go against the good impact of live-in condition of journalism and literature. Today's print journalism stands greatly on the story telling techniques of literature. Print journalism has been tablodized conveying multi colours. 

About the Author-

Dr. Baidyanath Bhattacharyya is teaching journalism for about three decades. Author of five books in journalism, mass communication and guest editor of a reputed online media journal, Dr. Bhattacharyya is considered one of the experts in journalism education.

Kumartuli: The Puja Flavour & Some Images

Goddess Durga Getting Decked Up With Other Family Members

Lord Ganesha Getting A Dash Of Colour

Biswakarma Idols Being Ferried In A Tempo

Goddess Durga Awaiting The Final Touch

The Beauty Of Lord Ganesha

Kumartuli Artisans At Work

Almighty Goddess Durga

Goddess Durga Fighting It Out With Evil

Durga Coming in Plenty

Indian Women: Fighting with Physical Abuse

Women were regarded as central part of the society from time immemorial though society continued to be patriarchal. Women were worshipped as goddess; adored as mother, wife and sister. But some incidents of recent times show that they are nothing more than objects of flesh and blood to satiate carnal pleasure through force. Every day when people flip through newspapers in search of good news like development in the country, economic progression etc they are confronted with just the opposite story. Women are been assaulted, molested and tortured both physically and mentally by men who can best be equated with beasts.

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Leaving aside the Vedic age when women commanded a lot of respect they have always been looked down upon as a commodity which is for pleasure and enjoyment. It is depressing to digest debates across the country which partly blames the tempting dressing of women leading to their rape. But these discussions cannot be accepted when globalisation is in full swing and when the global transfer of culture and ideas has reached a sizable proportion. In western societies women are much liberal in deciding what to wear which may raise eye brows in Indian standards but still the crime rate is lower compared to us. Primitive thinking of parda system is still in the mind of people who think dressing sense of women is all to blame. However, dress hardly matters to the perverts. We read in newspaper or see in television that a girl wearing salwar suit gets raped and furthermore women who are wearing sarees are also not spared. A woman who wears provocative dresses (according to Indian sensibilities) attracts a lot of lustful onlookers. 

 

Now we can come to a conclusion that cultural backwardness of Indian society is the main factor for lack of respect to women. We hear or read that our country has undergone a revolution or it is developing day by day but the actual scenario is bleak. Society is thinking over ways which enable women to get more opportunities so that they can be placed on an equal footing with men through legislations and enactments. Today we find women as ministers, chief minister, prime minster, president, top executives, sports-person etc but the fundamental question regarding respect to women still comes secondary. At present women irrespective of their age are searching for "security”. Now question is- who will ensure their security? 

About the Author- 

Nilika Banerjee is student of Journalism & Mass Communication at Rani Birla Girl's College, Kolkata, West Bengal, India.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

 

Are We Independent? I Think ‘No.’ What Do You Think?

Another 15th August, another Independence Day. The nation is all decked up in the try color to celebrate the most remarkable day in the history of India. TV channels are too busy scheduling the top 10 patriotic films (like Border, The Legend of Bhagat Singh, Rang De Basanti etc), FM stations cannot think of anything else but playing “Bharat Humko Jaan Se Pyara Hai”, “Bande Mataram” (Rehman’s version), “Sandeshe Aatein Hain” etc throughout the day. You can see families sitting in front of the TV set, watching the spectacular march past by Indian army and paramilitary forces. But amidst all these festivities where is the Independence? Can you see it? Can you feel it? Can you touch it? Can you decipher it?

Independence means “Freedom from the control, influence, support, aid, or the like, of others.” On 15 August, 1945, India, as a country, acquired freedom from the control of British rulers. We all knew how the brave-hearts broke the shackle of dominance and snatched away the liberty from the firm clench of those Britons. So I’m not going to repeat that tale once again here. But the question is, after 66 years of independence, can I call myself independent? Can you call yourself so? Can I freely express my thoughts about anything and everything? Can you ask the government to show you how they utilize the taxes you pay or how you are being benefited from that? Can you stand up and spit out your anger against the social and political injustice? Above all, what about your collective individual independence?

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When a country becomes independent that does not only mean that the country is free from any foreign oppression or injustice; that also signifies the fact that the common citizenry of that country is also free from any injustice, oppression, hardship etc.

India, the largest democratic sovereign country, ensures justice, liberty, equality and fraternity to her every citizen.

But –

• Can those little boys and girls working as labors free themselves and ask for equality?
• Can those millions of common people demand an answer from the government using their Right to Information?
• Can you or I stop paying the taxes until the government gives us a detailed account of those each and every paisa we have paid from our own pockets?
• Can an adult person of this country choose ‘No Vote’ during election? After all, if we are independent then we should have the power to choose no one as our candidate to the upper or lower house of the Parliament.
• When a court violates the laws it has set for itself, a victim is left with a no other choice than to accept it as his or her own misfortune.
• From presidential election to Rajya Sabha election, we are just puppets in the hands of the politicians or better say, our representatives. What a sarcasm it is!

And regarding India’s independence as a country - it still cannot decide its own nuclear deals, it cannot prohibit the intruders from crossing the LOC and it cannot make its own choice when it comes to purchasing arms & ammunitions from a foreign trader. And the list goes on…

Still we hoist the national flag; still the school children sing patriotic songs with folded hands; still all the TV reality shows bring their exclusive themed programs on air; and still we proudly call ourselves Independent. 

About the Author- 

Durba Sengupta is a Content Writer by profession. A student of Journalism and Mass Communication, she is a complete bookworm and a movie buff. Being an optimist, she dreams of a day when a few words like poverty and corruption will no longer be in use.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

The Olympic Dream

Curtains have fallen on the Olympic Games in London, 2012. A spectacular Ending ceremony was the crowning glory of the greatest sporting event on Earth. Indian contingent fought, ended up getting six medals (two silver and four bronze medals) and showed promise of getting few more medals in the near future. The country went the Hero way, "Hero Go, India Go". Like many others I also eagerly followed the developments and posted in facebook when one of our athletes won a medal. Suddenly we were finding wrestling interesting and badminton enjoyable.

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However, this euphoria is short lived. India loves its cricketers. They are our national heroes and all corporate support is for them. A good show in national and international circuit ensures a number of advertisements across television channels ranging from fairness creams to motorbikes. Sushil Kumar, Vijay Kumar or a Yogeshwar Dutt, getting a lot of cash reward after their achievement in Olympics, will go into oblivion after sometime. We as a nation love to listent to pulsating music during the cricket matches in IPL and enjoy the game! We like to watch all the antics of film stars like Shahrukh Khan and cheer wildly for cricketers like Saurav Ganguly (whether performing or non performing), Sachin Tendulkar (no more what he used to be), Mahendra Singh Dhoni (all smiles and all luck) and a number of other stars. Media in the country love to report over days on the Harvajan-Sreesanth slap-gate.

As Nirmal Shekar opines in The Hindu, "Let’s look forward to another wild parade through the streets of Mumbai with the boys peacocking from an open-top bus. Let’s unabashedly hail their heroics, throw fresh flowers and encomiums at them even as my fellow professionals try to pull out every adjective in their vocabulary to celebrate the great achievement.

Meanwhile, Mary Kom would probably be running from pillar to post to find a cooking gas cylinder in Manipur, Yogeshwar Dutt would be walking to the nearest tea stall in his hometown, unmolested, his stellar achievement long forgotten.

The peerless Viswanathan Anand’s fifth world chess title would be a distant memory and he would be preparing for yet another tournament that nobody cares about even as Jeev Milka Singh tees off somewhere that nobody has heard of. Birdie and eagles…well, we haven’t been to a bird sanctuary in a while; should make it a point to visit one."¹

The sad reality of our country is that we concentrate too much on cricket as other sports get neglected. I was listening to one anchor in a regional news channel as she expressed her displeasure on the small number of medals for a country with such a big population. She was arguing that poor infrastructure on the part of the government is the main roadblock. Agreeing with the fact that politics have ruined the prospects of the country and infrastructure has been poor there is also one big concern. The Indian mindset has to change. How can we expect great results from our athletes when we just brush them aside as non entities? Only during Olympics we find a lot of national spirit and feel disappointed when Abhinav Bindra fails to qualify. While Virat Kohli finds a problem of plenty to choose from advertisements, Mary Kom knows she cannot expect the same.

It is easy to point fingers at politicians and lament at the present conditions or results. Politicians are part of the society and it is the reflection of the society itself on their deeds. What do we do to cheer our athletes all the year round? We choose to avoid national hockey matches when they are telecast on television for the excitement of cricket. If a badminton match of Saina Nehwal can generate TRP's to the level of a cricket match then gradually corporates will pour in money because they understand business. Now where from will the TRP come if we choose to ignore her matches most of the time?

The governmental fund outlay has improved over what it used to be in the past and the results are showing in the increasing medal tally. However, for a nation to compete with giants like U.S.A and China there needs to be strong public backing behind national athletes. Media can serve a better purpose if they give these athletes good coverage throughout the year. Media also have to look into infrastructural deficiencies and form public opinion for their fast overhaul. They need to report about new talents and raise voice for more and more corporate involvement. Cricket is a beautiful game and the power structure revolves round it, however, it is time that we stop getting disappointed finding ourselves in 55th spot in the final medal tally and look within ourselves to feel whether we are doing justice to other sports apart from cricket in the country. Playing hockey is not encouraged in schools; badminton, table tennis, chess, wrestling or other sports are always considered secondary to academics. Talents are lost when parents pursue a promising badminton player to leave the game for better prospects in engineering. Cricket, though, is in a different league because mothers flock with their would be Sachin's, Sourav's, Dravid's, Dhoni's to cricket coaching centres. They are adamant to see their children making a century at Lords and soon become the sought after advertising model. We cannot expect the good when we ourselves deliver the worst. It is commendable that in spite of being pushed aside these athletes spring up from nowhere and produce good results. They are aware that all their valiant deeds for the nation will be forgotten when Shahrukh Khan will dance to the tunes of a popular Hindi film number with his Knights, post an IPL match.

1. Nirmal Shekar's Column in The Hindu retrieved from: http://www.thehindu.com/opinion/columns/nirmal_shekar/article3758296.ece?textsize=small&test=2

Anand at the top of the World

On 30^th May India achieved a new feat in the world of chess. Viswanathan Anand, 42, secured his fifth World Championship title defeating Boris Gelfand of Israel in the ‘toughest’ title clash at the State Tretyakov Gallery, Moscow. He made India proud by achieving this glory and challenge Russian monopoly in World Chess. It was high tension drama. Intensity of the battle made everyone forget that both the players had played 12- classical games over the past three weeks.

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In 1988 Anand became India's first grandmaster. He achieved the distinction of receiving the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna in 1991-92, India's highest sporting honour and the Padma Vibhushan in 2007, the country's second highest civilian award, making him the first sports person in India's history to receive the award. Anand's strong presence in the international arena started in 1995 with his attempt at the world championship crown where he lost to Russian Gary Kasparov 10.5-7.5 in the PCA world championship match.

This is fourth successive world championship victory for Anand. He is the only player in the history of chess to win the world championship in all the formats- knockout, round- robin tournament and individual matches.

Anand will be the world champion till his next title clash, which will make him the world champion for a cumulative nine years now (2000-2002 and 2007- 2014). He pocketed about USD 1.4 million- 55 percent of the total prize fund of USD 2.55 million- while Gelfand got the remaining amount. No doubt it was a great moment for India.

However, for Indians sports means only cricket. Others hardly find support. We forget that there are sports persons across disciplines who made Indian proud. The athletes had an impressive show in the Commonwealth Games. Proper infrastructure can do wonders for sports in the country. The focus must shift beyond cricket. Three weeks long match between Anand and Gelfand hardly got space and time in media because at that time people were glued to the IPL. Fortunately when Anand won the title IPL was just over so he got proper media attention.

It is a pity that achievers like Indian Kabaddi champions, boxers, weight lifters stayed in darkness and were treated badly by the authorities. They were deprived of the honour which they deserved. Hope things will change for good and India will soon be a super power in the sports arena.

About the Author-

Moon Jana is an announcer at All India Radio, Siliguri, West Bengal, India. She did her Masters in Journalism & Mass Communication from Visva-Bharati University.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

On 30^th May India achieved a new feat in the world of chess. Viswanathan Anand, 42, secured his fifth World Championship title defeating Boris Gelfand of Israel in the ‘toughest’ title clash at the State Tretyakov Gallery, Moscow. He made India proud by achieving this glory and challenge Russian monopoly in World Chess. It was high tension drama. Intensity of the battle made everyone forget that both the players had played 12- classical games over the past three weeks.

In 1988 Anand became India's first grandmaster. He achieved the distinction of receiving the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna in 1991-92, India's highest sporting honour and the Padma Vibhushan in 2007, the country's second highest civilian award, making him the first sports person in India's history to receive the award. Anand's strong presence in the international arena started in 1995 with his attempt at the world championship crown where he lost to Russian Gary Kasparov 10.5-7.5 in the PCA world championship match.

This is fourth successive world championship victory for Anand. He is the only player in the history of chess to win the world championship in all the formats- knockout, round- robin tournament and individual matches.

Anand will be the world champion till his next title clash, which will make him the world champion for a cumulative nine years now (2000-2002 and 2007- 2014). He pocketed approximately USD 1.4 million- 55 percent of the total prize fund of USD 2.55 million- while Gelfand got the remaining amount. No doubt it was a great moment for India.

However, for Indians sports means only cricket. Others hardly find support. We forget that there are sports persons across disciplines who made Indian proud. The athletes had an impressive show in the Commonwealth Games. Proper infrastructure can do wonders for sports in the country. The focus must shift beyond cricket. Three weeks long match between Anand and Gelfand hardly got space and time in media because at that time people were glued to the IPL. Fortunately when Anand won the title IPL was just over so he got proper media attention.

It is a pity that achievers like Indian Kabaddi champions, boxers, weight lifters stayed in darkness and were treated badly by the authorities. They were deprived of the honour which they deserved. Hope things will change for good and India will soon be a super power in the sports arena.

Yet Another Beginning

Wish I could fly like Spiderman and scream with joy, "I am back, I am back!" I know posts in Dispassionate Observer are irregular. I can't help it..Trying to fix this for months though..alas not finding much success..Hope this time Dispassionate Observer will not disappoint. It is now a fact that this blog has been accepted by some readers and hence the page views have swelled. I am happy to see that Dispassionate Observer has gone past 10,000 page views.  I didn't expect this when I started the blog given the long absence of any posts. Thanks a lot to all those who considered it worthwhile to read the articles and thought pieces.

The problems for me compounded when I understood that I am experiencing a writer's block. My mind went blank, devoid of any ideas to work on. I turned to books, read a number of them but still the flow was not there.  Not only my blog, I promised to write for some other websites who really had beautiful plans. I know I have not done justice to them but somehow I was not feeling like writing anything.

Dispassionate Observer will hopefully do justice this time. There will be regular posts from me and a number of other authors who have made this blog what it is today. In this month of London Olympics Dispassionate Observer wishes best of luck to the Indian contingent. Depressing news about events have been the order of the day, an event like Olympics will provide some fresh air and enjoyment worldwide.

Resilient KKR Brings Trophy Home

picture source: Sahil Deewana (picasa)

The wait is finally over. No more anxious moments to touch the beautiful IPL trophy and Shahrukh Khan can now stop wearing his lucky black tees and same jeans to make his team win.

After digesting a lot of controversies the wind finally turned in favour of Khan’s Riders. Already the evening shower brought a bit of relief to the city, but the sweet midnight storm was much more reliving.

Dhoni failed to make a hat trick of wins in the IPL . The way his team performed in last few matches it appeared they will be hard to beat in their own backyard. The credit goes to the Knights specially – Gautam, Bisla, Kallis, Manoj and Narine.

It no more remained just a game. For the emotional people of Kolkata it was like a dream come true. It was their belief that the team could win and finally their belief turned into reality.

Gautam (Gautam Gambhir) proved it was the team spirit that led them to success. King Khan who always believed in "Korbo, Lorbo, Jeetbo"( we will do it, fight and finally win) kept the flames alive and finally he was rewarded with a grand victory. 

Dada’s (Sourav Ganguly) sixth sense got it right and the night turned out to be lucky for the Knights. Co-owner Juhi’s (Juhi Chawla) promise to Mamtaji (The Chief Minister of West Bengal) to return to Bengal with the cup finally turned out to be true.

After going through all types of experiences in the past years Kolkata Knight Riders finally achieved their desired goal. People of West Bengal had a peaceful sleep as they basked in the glory of being the top team in India. 

‘Korbo Lorbo Jeetbo’ anthem worked out this season. Team spirit, hard work, belief and excellent execution helped them to lift the DLF IPL Cup 2012.

About the Author-

Anwesha Guha Thakurta  is student of Journalism & Mass Communication at Muralidhar Girls College, Kolkata, West Bengal, India.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

Why Are We So Wrong To Girl Child, India?

India envisages to become a developed nation. However, due to her so-called superstitious traditional culture she is unable to cope with modern world. Some beliefs and practices are acting as hurdle to her progress. In this country women are not getting the respect which they should get. According to Indian Constitution everyone should get equal opportunity to progress.

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India is a land where female gods are worshipped, however, in practice the society is patriarchal. Mother is an important factor but if she gives birth to a female child then she is abused by the family. Through scientific methods it can be detected whether the baby is a boy or a girl when it is inside the womb. So called cultured people irrespective of education are taking the advantage of advanced technologies illegally and are wasting no time in destroying the baby if it turns out to be a girl. Most are happy with male child. According to them their future will be protected by their sons and they will earn lots of money. Even they will also help maintain their lineage and heredity. At times the mother is held responsible for the birth of a female child but those who are aware of medical science know it better that the male chromosome Y can only be given by the male partner. In spite of knowing all this many women are tortured, killed and even compelled to commit suicide. During pregnancy women are subject to brutal torture to kill the female baby which even lead to death of the mother. In India steps were taken against female infanticide which lead to reduced instances of such cases. Now the disturbing trend has again surfaced.

Almost every day if we open any newspaper or news channel we hear or read news about female infanticide. Government has enactments in place against such killings but it is not enough. Before elections all ministers shout they will do for the society but once they are elected they are of no use. In India the president is a woman, there are female ministers and number of entrepreneurs are women. My question to them is what are they are doing? Aren’t they reading newspapers? Why can't they do anything despite being in seats of power? Who will reply to all these questions? Now it’s high time for common women to raise their voice against female infanticide. If this system persists then a situation will arise when female population of India will decline which is alarming for the days to come.

We can not move towards modernisation with our illogical, illegal, unethical, inhuman, immoral and unjustified Hippocratic culture. Detection of sex before birth is illegal and punishable crime but in every part of the country it is happening. Harsh punishments should be imposed on the criminals who indulge in this act. The notion that male child is more likely to ensure well protected future for parents is proving to be useless in modern society. Research has shown that female children are actually taking care of their parents even after their marriage while the male ones are failing to keep their word.

About the Author- 

Nilika Banerjee is student of Journalism & Mass Communication at Rani Birla Girl's College, Kolkata, West Bengal, India.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

Satyameva Jayate- Promise of a New Dawn

“Pehle Sunday ko subah aap Mahabharat dekhte the, aab dekhiye aaj ka bharat”- enough to invoke interest to see today’s ‘Bharat’. This is what Satyamev Jayate is all about . Innovative in its advertising campaign, Satyamev Jayate has already succeeded in capturing the mind space of the audience. The campaign, prior to the launch of the serial, had an element of suspense which was built up in a skillful manner. From its first advertisement itself it remained interesting. People became curious to see the next advertisement. One by one, step by step it unfolded its features in a conscious and strategic way.“Entertainment ka matlab sirf hasana nehi, mujhe to lagta hai public ko gussa ana chahiye”, “Sunday subah der se soiye, saat baje tak, aath baje tak, nau baje tak, daas baje tak, fir to main aa hi raha hu aap ko jagane k liye”- this is how Aamir Khan created strong curiosity about this show.

                             picture source:Hammad Hassan (picasa)

                               

 

Satyameva Jayate did not appear as an advertisement of any product or a show. It was just about a person (not a star) who talks with his friends or anyone about a matter. Informal in style but highly focused. “ Sunday subah ghar ka sara kaam jaldi kar lijiye, fir main aa raha hu, kuch baat karni hai”. Its seemed like a person who comes to your doorstep and reminds you about the meeting where you have to be present. It directly addressed the audience and convinced them to be ready for discussion .

In first two or three advertisements people could not figure out whether it’s an advertisement or has something more to it. In first advertisement there was no direct approach or testimonials from the star about the show. So, people had no clue what was going on. This resulted in heightened curiosity.

Another ingredient of this successful ad campaign is ‘Aamir Khan’ himself. People know him as a perfectionist. They have lots of expectation from him. Many are watching this show because of him. They are aware that Amir Khan, of late, has been associated with projects which are classy and not run of the mill. He sums up the objective of the show- ‘Sirf hungama khara karna mera maksad nehi. Meri kosis hai k yeh surat badalni chahiye. Mere sine me nehi to tere sine me sahi. Ho kahi bhi aag, lekin jalni chahiye” A bold step to make positive changes in Indian society by taking on age old evil practices. However, aware of media which believes more on sensational practices rather than actual good, he vows to make this show different in all aspects. A show that can really make some difference. Satyameva Jayate Amir Khan!

About the Author-

Moon Jana is an announcer at All India Radio, Siliguri, West Bengal, India. She did her Masters in Journalism & Mass Communication from Visva-Bharati University.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

Social Media and the Disadvantages of Networking

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The Good

It’s becoming a small, small world. It seems, with the Internet, places that seemed so far away really aren’t anymore. People you never thought you’d communicate with are a button away. Social media is a concept that has grown in leaps and bounds over the past few years. Many companies and people now see Facebook and Twitter as a valid method of raising their profile. The Internet affords an instant connection to a global audience which is now being used to its full potential by these companies.

There are great examples of social media. One of them relates to my employment. The company I work for sells kitchen appliance online. Maybe not the most interesting of things. But that’s the beauty of social media. We can make it interesting. Through a representative who is considered the ‘face’ of our business, we gained interest on Facebook, Twitter and YouTube. Facebook has almost 50,000 people interested in what we are doing. Twitter has almost 5,000 follows. We have created a community that shares information and gets involved. When news gets out, it’s shared almost immediately.

The Bad

But is this always a good thing? Like human nature, social networking can become pretty disappointing at times. Like all technology, it can be abused, twisted and turned into something negative. Remember the riots last year? The planning of that was done in part via certain social networks. The instantaneous communication that resulted from social networking mean that people were informed about police locations and actions before the police had chance to maintain an effective presence.

Basically, it was like the flash mob from hell.

And the Ugly...

The negative sides to people can really come out in new ways thanks to the Internet. For example, bullying can take on a whole new level that transcends the physical. Tales in the news of cyber bullying are constant. This isn’t focused solely on school children or work colleagues. More recognisable faces are in fact more likely to be targeted in this way. Matt Lucas (of Little Britain Fame) for example, felt he had to leave Twitter because of derogatory comments made about his partner, who recently passed away. 

The argument could also be made that whilst it makes communication between people much simpler, are we damaging the personal relationships of those closest to us? People are now ‘addicted’ to networking sites, which can have an adverse effect on their personal as well as professional life.

A decline in productivity has been seen in companies that allow access to Facebook and Twitter. And remember, often your personal information contained on these sites can create a ‘life brand’ potential employer might check to see if you are suitable candidates. 

Those ‘harmless’ comments, photos and posts you and your friends might have found amusing may actually work against you in the long run. Think about when you meet someone new. They seem to really like you, until they see your Facebook and Twitter posts that make disparaging remarks. These days, no one is anonymous. 

Social media and social networking takes a certain amount of responsibility. When used right, it can be a powerful tool. When used wrong, then lives can be affected in the real world.

About the Author-

Halit Bozdogan is a writer for Appliances Online. He likes Japanese culture, has lived in Japan, loves playing squash and is going to be a father in July. It’s a boy, so the only real question is which will be his favourite; Batman or Spider-man! You can follow Halit on Twitter @TheBozDog

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The Make Belief World of Social Networking

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“Hey! Have you changed your profile pic! You are looking so nice…”

“I have updated my status, check it out.”

“Have you uploaded our party pics? Don’t forget to tag me buddy...”

“I poked you, why didn’t you? It’s not fare.”

“My favorite hero twitted yesterday that he would tie knot soon. I’m gonna die!”

“Hey buddy, what’s up? I’m just chatting.”

“Why don’t you download information from net? It’s too easy. You can just Google it.”

" Hey! Have you seen my baby? Isn't her smile one in a million?" 

 

These are few expressions which have become a part of the world of social networking. Across age groups people are getting used to conversations of the new generation. This is the trend of a generation who are too obsessed with themselves. 

 

Am I being rude saying that? May be I’m not. Isn’t it our obsession to spend most of the hours of a day in front of a screen & make new friends who can never be met (even running the risk of being duped by fake profiles), giving updates of every single step taken in the day ( I just washed my teeth, I am feeling sleepy now etc), editing snaps in Photoshop or Picasa to create beautiful profile pictures? Nowadays we do not even have any personal or private life, because we update our status, flood our walls in facebook with every change in our life. Even we have given right to every person (known or unknown) to make comments on that. Now we have become attention seekers by creating our "hip and happening" profiles consciously or subconsciously waiting to count how many likes & comments we get.

Can we instantly become prettier after someone make a comment or can we become ‘not so cool’ after someone thinks that? These social networking sites are overpowering our minds & we are forced to believe what others think or say about us. These websites like Myspace, Facebook, Orkut, Twitter,  Yahoo 360 & so on got instant popularity for its ease of use & free subscription. A person does not need to be a computer expert to use these websites. Therefore every single person has their own account & profile these days. Not everything these websites have offered so far is bad. However, the way the young generation is using it is unworthy, useless. It would not be so harmful if it becomes a tool to relax in leisure time or to get refreshed after a stressful day, but it is affecting the mental-development of young generation who are more conscious about their profile settings than the real world, society, career and the future.

Social networking websites have discovered a wide field where people around the world can access what they want. There are millions of sites (such as Google) where we can search for valuable information, news blogs, & other essentials. If this social networking can be used fruitfully, no other medium can be better than this one. Even Facebook, Orkut and similar websites like this are useful to voice one’s own views, opinions, protests against social or political issues & to make strong public support on a burning problem. Now it depends on us how we use it. It can be fruitful if we wish or can just ruin our ability to think if used in a wrong manner. Ideas and opinions in Facebook, Orkut or Twitter should not guide our lives, images posted there of life and happenings should not be the real story. The real story should come out of life which is real and not virtual. 

About the Author- 

Shayani Gupta is student of Journalism & Mass Communication at Muralidhar Girls College, Kolkata, West Bengal, India.

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author, and they do not reflect in any way those of the Dispassionate Observer.

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